When It’s Easter Week And You’re Short On Hope

I sat across from her. An 8:30 breakfast on Wednesday of Easter week. But we didn’t talk about weekend plans. Instead she tells me her story. A story no one should have. A son taken from her too soon. Despite all the prayers lifted up, despite all the attempts to save him, her baby gone from this earth and all she’s left with is an ache.girl-865304_1920

So everyone celebrates life this week while she breaks.

My stomach tightens, not from the chain-restaurant omelette, but from the knot of longing. I wanted to say I understand. But how can I? Who can understand such pain? I wanted to have some great words of comfort, but none came.

What do you say to a mother who lowered her son in a grave long before his time? What do you say when it seems the whole world is erupting with spring life and hers is cloaked in winter’s chill?


So I listen. And I pray. And I realize that her story is sadly not rare enough. I realize that all around me lie the ruins of brokenness. I realize that the journey through this world is one split by selfishness and greed and hatred and heartache. And too often, hopelessness.

And then I remember the story.

The one where Hope stepped onto the landscape of the world, took on its brokenness and stretched it out on a cross. The one where the sky split open and grace descended.cross-828894_1920

I don’t believe most stories. I think incredible stories are mostly just that—in-credible. And this one is most incredible of all. I mean who can absorb the notion that God would come to earth and pour Himself into flesh?

Not just flesh, but infant flesh. And that He grew into a divine man with the power to heal and to forgive? And then in that power He looked behind and ahead to all mankind—to me and to you—and saw each moment?

Each broken moment. Each unholy moment. Each gunshot fired. Each drug injected. Each harsh word or cold slap. Each tear shed. That He had the power to see my pain and my disease and my injustice and…my sin, and declare it wiped away?

Who could believe such a story?

But I believe this one.

Not because someone told it to me, although I’m glad they did. Not because of a Sunday school flannel board, although it was fun. And not even because I read it in an ancient document, although I now treasure that holy book.lamp-872946_1920I believe it because His story collided with my story and it became our story.

I believe it because there was a time when I couldn’t find my way through the senselessness of my broken road and all I had were whys. There was no making sense. There was only doubt and fear and a sense that I would never be okay again.

And then that story. A man who died on a cross, yet lived. A man who stretched out His arms and declared it finished, yet just beginning. He looked though the corridors of 2000 years and saw my tears and desperation and I saw Him. And it wasn’t just a story anymore. It was Hope and Resurrected Life.

It was God with me.

Emmanuel. God with us. Then and now. Reminding us that we are not alone.

And that this is not the forever world. But there is one waiting for us that needs no words to explain it or make it make sense. A world where a mother who walked this earth years past her prime stretches renewed arms out to her young son who never reached his in an embrace that knows no sorrow.mother-and-son-887058_1920

A world where there is no more death or grief or tears or pain. A world that makes sense of all that is and was.

A world that once only existed in my make-believe mind. But I’ve glimpsed it. I got a peak into that world during my deepest suffering. The curtain was pulled back and I knew. I knew the story was true. I knew that it was possible to live when everything else was dying.

My friend knows it too.

Our breakfast dishes had been cleared away and we sipped the last of our coffee through tears and through laughter. She knows the story. Heaven came down when her son was taken up.

She suffers. She longs. She questions. Yet she knows. She believes. This broken road ends in wholeness.church-750251_1920I hope you can believe that.

I hope you can take it all in despite how in-credible it sounds. The suffering, the heartache, the senselessness. It won’t always be so. It’s only part of this journey and it isn’t forever.

If something in you has died, if all hope is lost, I hope you will believe the story. I promise you, when you look through faith’s eyes, you see what can not be seen with your own. And you can find joy despite suffering, hope despite hopelessness, and life despite death.

I’ve created Hope For the Hard Places just for you, and I’d love for you to download it or share it in anyway you find helpful.

Please leave me a comment below and let me know if you believe the story. Or if you’re not sure. I’d love to have coffee with you sometime.









9 thoughts on “When It’s Easter Week And You’re Short On Hope

  1. It was 5 years ago about this very season that the Story became reality! A fresh faith fell upon me and a fire for the Lord that carried us through some really tough stuff! I pray that this Holy season brings us all a renewed a clarity and reven at ion of who He is and what the Lord did for us! I would love to pray for any of you who may be struggling or knows someone who is! Believing for hearts to come to the Lord as we realize we aren’t alone and hopeless but have hope in Jesus! Thank Rita! I can’t express how grateful I am to the Lord for Him seeing fit to have our paths entwine! Love you sister!

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  2. For now….I’m broken. I can’t make sense of what is happening. It seems no one cares. Then I shared with a dear friend. I know that God is doing a work. I know He is, but wisely and softly she said “that doesn’t make it not hurt now.” No. Those words were balm to my soul. I praise God for the right people at the right time who walk this rugged road with us. I know my Savior reaches out and holds me. But she’s right, the pain is real. The hurt is on going. The frustration and hopelessness is there…..and then I look at Jesus.


  3. Betty, you are blessed to have such a wise friend to remind you of that. Knowing it isn’t forever doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt right now which often feels like forever. But what a gift to have even one person share the hard things with you. God bless you Betty.


  4. Thank you for sharing this, Rita, and for the Scripture resource. As my desire to go into labor naturally the past 9 days of being overdue will end in a second c-section tomorrow, I want to keep proclaiming the goodness of our Sovereign Father who works everything together for our good.


  5. Dear Rita,
    Thank you for this post. It was so encouraging, shifting the focus from helplessness that we as mothers often feel to the very real presence and hope found in the promises of our Savior. It is undoubtedly too good to be true and yet, it is. There will be a day when the grip this world has on our hearts will be loosened and we will rejoice forever in the presence of Jesus. There are few things that cut deeper than the pain we suffer for our
    children. I can almost hear the hearts of mothers breaking all around me as the dreams they had for their children seem to be shattered. But, Jesus is there picking up the pieces, treasuring each one as it has drawn us closer to Him. It’s hard to imagine but we can rest in the knowledge that He loves our children even more than we do.


    • Ah, Bonnie, so beautifully spoken. I love those words, “Jesus is there picking up the pieces, treasuring each one…” How true it is. I remind myself so often that I can trust my children to the One who loves them even more than I do. Not easily done, but a great truth to keep sowing into my soul. Thanks for sharing.


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